On my birthday I stood in front of everyone with a black eye. The room went silent. My son said proudly ‘It was my wife — she taught her some respect.’ My DIL smirked. Then my brother walked up to my son and said something that changed everything.
On my fifty-ninth birthday, I stood in my own dining room holding a knife over a half-cut chocolate cake, one eye swollen shut and turning purple. The candles were already lit. My sister-in-law had just finished singing “Happy Birthday,” and the last note died in the air like someone pulled the plug on the music….