I knew I had to act fast. The first thing I did was try to call Emma, but her phone went straight to voicemail. My son, Alex, was out of town, and I couldn’t bring myself to tell anyone else yet. Whoever was doing this was meticulous, almost stalking me through her phone.
I decided to take the phone to a local tech expert, someone I trusted completely. When I showed him the messages, his eyes widened. “This isn’t just random texts,” he said. “This is someone accessing her phone remotely. Whoever it is, they’ve planned this for a reason. They know personal details about you, and maybe even Mark.”
I felt my stomach twist. Could it be someone from Mark’s past? Someone with a grudge? “But how?” I whispered. “Mark’s been gone for five years. Who could do this now?”
The expert shook his head. “People can do a lot with photos, metadata, GPS. It doesn’t have to be Mark. But whoever it is, they’re close. Very close.”
I left the shop with a sense of dread. I had to figure this out myself. Back at home, I started retracing Emma’s steps—who had access to her phone, who might know her routine. Then I remembered: last week, Emma had lent her phone to her assistant, a man named Greg. I had seen him around the house a few times, but he always seemed polite, unassuming.
I checked my email, phone records, and even social media accounts. Slowly, a pattern emerged. Greg had a habit of sharing things online—but he was careful, almost obsessive. A chill ran down my spine as I realized he had the technical knowledge and the opportunity.
My next move was risky. I pretended to leave the phone charging in the kitchen while I watched from the living room. A few minutes later, I saw movement in the corner of my eye. Greg had come over—unexpectedly, unannounced. My heart raced. I confronted him, holding the phone like a shield.
“You sent those messages,” I demanded, my voice trembling. “Why? What do you want from me?”
Greg froze. His calm facade cracked, revealing something dark behind his eyes. “You wouldn’t understand,” he said quietly.
Before I could respond, my phone buzzed. Another message. This time, it wasn’t a photo. It was a location.
I didn’t hesitate. The location led me to a small storage unit just a few blocks away. Greg followed, maintaining a facade of innocence, but I could feel his tension. I unlocked the unit, expecting the worst—and found a wall covered in photos, notes, and personal items belonging to Mark and me.
Every memory we had—the trips, our wedding, even little things like our favorite coffee mugs—was there. It was like a shrine built by someone obsessed. I realized then how calculated everything had been: the messages, the timing, the photos. Greg wanted me to see him as Mark’s replacement, a way to control and manipulate my grief.
I held up the phone. “Why? Why do all this?” I asked, tears welling in my eyes.
Greg didn’t answer immediately. He looked around at his own collection of memories, finally lowering his gaze. “I… I thought I could fix what you lost. I wanted you to notice me. I never meant to scare you this much.”
It was surreal. All this terror, this obsession, boiled down to misguided infatuation and delusion. Relief and rage collided inside me. I called Alex and the police. Greg was taken into custody, and the authorities confirmed he had been meticulously tracking both our lives for months.
Afterward, I sat in the quiet of my living room, exhausted but oddly liberated. The phone, once a source of fear, felt like a reminder of survival. I couldn’t change the past, but I could reclaim my present.
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