The day before my 50th birthday, I awoke trembling from an unforgettable dream – my father gripped my shoulders, his eyes blazing. “Don’t wear the dress your husband bought,” “He’s not the man you think he is. Don’t go.” Now the dress still hangs in the closet, waiting. Should I listen to the living or the dead?
The day before my 50th birthday, I jolted awake with my heart hammering and my hands damp against the sheets. It wasn’t a “message from the dead.” It was worse—my mind stitching together things I’d refused to notice. In the dream, my dad had gripped my shoulders the way he used to when I was…