She laughed in front of the entire table and said, “She’s just admin,” like my whole life could be reduced to a job title. I smiled and let the silence stretch. Then her fiancé turned to me and asked, “So… what do you actually do?” I gave him a one-word answer. His face changed first. Then her parents’ did. And in that instant, she realized the woman she had mocked was the one person who could destroy everything she had built.
By the time my sister called me “just admin” at her engagement dinner, she had no idea she was insulting the person reviewing the biggest deal her fiancé’s company had ever pitched. My name is Brooke Carter, and for most of my life, I learned that people hear the word admin and stop asking questions….